This event reminded me that I need to take time to slow down. In my typical American haste, I offended not only a co-worker but also a potential donor. This morning was a good reminder that I need to not only put effort into the physical work I do but also into my interactions with others. In the future, I will do my best to be more conscientious of those around me.
"Could a greater miracle take place than us to look through each others eyes for an instant?" -- Thoreau
Friday, June 7, 2013
おはようございます!
As I said in
earlier post, it was inevitable that I would commit another cultural faux pas
at work. I was a bit late this morning
and as I quickly walked in, I said my customary おはようございます (good
morning) to my co-workers and hurried into the kitchen to fill my water bottle
for the day. As I came out of the
kitchen, I walked by an old man I didn’t recognize (whom I now assume was a
visitor or a donor) and one of my co-workers.
I quickly said おはよう to them as I walked back to my desk. As I began to sit down, I heard my co-worker
say かわいい (cute). As I turned to look at
her, she motioned me back over to her and the old man.
She
explained to me that in Japan when you are speaking to someone who is older than
you, you have to be respectful. Since
both she and the older man were older than me, I could not say おはよう, but I had
to おはようございます (the longer and more polite version). I apologized the
best I could and said おはようございます to both of them and returned to my seat. What was
more embarrassing than being told to say おはようございます to adults older than
me in front of all my co-workers, was the fact that I already knew this, but in my haste to begin working, I
forgot.
This event reminded me that I need to take time to slow down. In my typical American haste, I offended not only a co-worker but also a potential donor. This morning was a good reminder that I need to not only put effort into the physical work I do but also into my interactions with others. In the future, I will do my best to be more conscientious of those around me.
This event reminded me that I need to take time to slow down. In my typical American haste, I offended not only a co-worker but also a potential donor. This morning was a good reminder that I need to not only put effort into the physical work I do but also into my interactions with others. In the future, I will do my best to be more conscientious of those around me.
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Location:
Iidabashi, Chiyoda, Tokyo, Japan
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